Which one of the following relations on $R$ is an equivalence relation

For $\alpha \in N$, consider a relation $R$ on $N$ given by $R =\{( x , y ): 3 x +\alpha y$ is a multiple of 7$\}$.The relation $R$ is an equivalence relation if and only if.

If $R$ is a relation from a set $A$ to a set $B$ and $S$ is a relation from $B$ to a set $C$, then the relation $SoR$

Let $X =\{1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9\} .$ Let $R _{1}$ be a relation in $X$ given by $R _{1}=\{(x, y): x-y$ is divisible by $3\}$ and $R _{2}$ be another relation on $X$ given by ${R_2} = \{ (x,y):\{ x,y\}  \subset \{ 1,4,7\} \} $ or $\{x, y\} \subset\{2,5,8\} $ or $\{x, y\} \subset\{3,6,9\}\} .$ Show that $R _{1}= R _{2}$.

Let $N$ denote the set of all natural numbers and $R$ be the relation on $N \times N$ defined by $(a, b)$ $R$ $(c, d)$ if $ad(b + c) = bc(a + d),$ then $R$ is